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While everyone's lost, the battle is won... ([personal profile] iamashamed) wrote2011-06-06 12:51 pm

Friends cut.

Doing a Friends-cut. There's people on my flist that I never talk to, and who never comment (either they have stopped commenting, or have never commented at all), so I think it's time that I remove people. Nothing personal, of course, but if I don't know you at least a tiny bit, or in some ways trust you, I'm not comfortable with you reading my journal. And if you never post anymore, I might remove you as well. If I cut you and you for some reason want to stay, message me and I'll add you back. This is not a 'comment if you want to stay' post, just a way to keep my Flist updated.

Again, nothing personal. But my Flist is so big, especially compared to how many people I actually talk to. So yeah, if we talk and you still use your journal, I probably won't remove you.

[identity profile] destiny-ends.livejournal.com 2011-06-06 11:07 am (UTC)(link)
I've been pretty bad about commenting on anyone's journals lately, but I hope you won't cut me! *hug*

[identity profile] iamashamed.livejournal.com 2011-06-06 07:45 pm (UTC)(link)
of course not bb<3 you're awesome. *hug*

[identity profile] velvetcure.livejournal.com 2011-06-06 03:48 pm (UTC)(link)
yeah, i think everyone goes through phases of not-commenting and then talking a lot. i've really tried to keep my Flist pretty simple.

anyway, all that isn't why i'm commenting now. shallowly [ha!], i just wanted to say i like your icon. it's really pretty! :)

[identity profile] iamashamed.livejournal.com 2011-06-06 07:47 pm (UTC)(link)
True:)

Hahaha, thank you! Didn't make it sadly, it's from [livejournal.com profile] colorvary

[identity profile] onlyconnect-83.livejournal.com 2011-06-07 03:17 pm (UTC)(link)
Hey, hon...this is [livejournal.com profile] emotionalwench. I just started a new LJ and want to start updating it again, with at least some degree of frequency. You can cut my old journal if you want since I don't update it anymore, but I'd love it if you would add my new journal. I miss you and I hope we can get started talking again now that I've made my intention to come back to LJ. :) Love you.

[identity profile] onlyconnect-83.livejournal.com 2011-06-07 03:23 pm (UTC)(link)
Thanks hon. Can't wait to start reading up on you again. ;) I see you on Facebook occasionally but as I can't read Danish, it seems better to keep in touch with you here, LOL.

[identity profile] iamashamed.livejournal.com 2011-06-07 03:31 pm (UTC)(link)
Same, and I've missed you sfm as well! was just checking your old LJ the other day, hah. Glad to hear from you again<3. Love you, and I'm glad you friended me. Are you doing well?

and haha, cannot blame you for not knowing Danish:P

[identity profile] onlyconnect-83.livejournal.com 2011-06-07 03:43 pm (UTC)(link)
Aww, it means a lot to me that you've missed me as well! I was afraid all my old LJ friends wouldn't care about me since I stopped posting...which I wouldn't really blame them for, since I essentially disappeared. But yeah, I hope to re-connect with everyone. :)

I've been doing...up and down. Kind of down at the moment. Joel and I broke up last night, probably for good this time. It was for the best and we're still going to be friends, but I'm still kind of an emotional wreck. Most of all because I don't think I handled the breakup discussion yesterday as well as I should have. *sigh* But at least being single again will give me the freedom to get back into the things I'd set aside since I started the relationship, like LJ, etc.

[identity profile] iamashamed.livejournal.com 2011-06-07 05:33 pm (UTC)(link)
Break ups fucking suck, I'm beginning to see that myself now, lolz. Sorry bb, that really sucks. But I have faith that you'll get through it; you're a strong person:). And <333333 that you're here again.

[identity profile] onlyconnect-83.livejournal.com 2011-06-07 05:45 pm (UTC)(link)
Thanks, Louise. I know I'm strong too...although I don't feel particularly strong today. :-/

[identity profile] onlyconnect-83.livejournal.com 2011-06-07 03:44 pm (UTC)(link)
Doh, I didn't mean to post that comment yet. I was going to say, how are YOU, my dear?! I need to re-read your recent entries to try to catch up.

[identity profile] iamashamed.livejournal.com 2011-06-07 05:36 pm (UTC)(link)
I'm ok, but still healing after breaking up with my first real love. Yep, since we last talked Louise has dated two guys, lost the v card to one of then (the second/real one), and both been the dumper and the dumpee. Yay?. Though right now not so much.

[identity profile] onlyconnect-83.livejournal.com 2011-06-07 05:44 pm (UTC)(link)
*hugs* Sweetie, I am sorry. If you ever need to talk to anyone I'm here, 'k? I've been both the dumper and the dumpee as well, and both of them suck in their own way. I love you. <3333